Aftercare is not a secret BDSM ritual.
Aftercare is paying attention to your partner and their needs after the sex is over, whatever those needs may be, after whatever type of intimacy has just taken place. Your partner will tell you what their needs are after sex, if they volunteer it, or if you ask them. Caring about your partner’s post sex needs and tending to them is something that should happen in all healthy relationships, whether they are based in BDSM, or are vanilla relationships. Aftercare is not a secret BDSM ritual.
Ever since my dad got a new girlfriend a couple months ago he’s gotten his shit together in a way I’m really not used to
The house is clean, we have a new laundry machine, he’s been helping me with stuff and is generally more vocally supportive, especially about my transition. I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop but it just hasn’t yet? Where did my deadbeat dad go
come watch eurovision we got:
funky uncle squad ready to throw hands with the nearest dictator

human neon conga line

thor in a toyota

pagan wedding rituals

edgar allan poe

token boyband

tiny woman in a box

possessed barbie dolls

xena, warrior singer

matrix cosplayers

glam rock fire lord ozai

cyberpunk ninjas and modern art sculptures

and lastly, europe when the votes come in










